Why do men seek prostitution?

It just suddenly strike me to blog about this topic. Why do men go for prostitution?

Many women, spouse and girl friends wonder. In fact, it was not that sudden at all. I recalled reading the topic somewhere in a forum. A girlfriend, posted to the forum that her boyfriend goes for prostitution behind her back and she was confused and in turn seeking opinions of men why did men, particularly her boyfriend, go for prostitution. While the general forum members poked funs at her, it got me thinking too! If I were to seek prostitutes, why would I do it?

Well.. it’s a thrill. Speaking from my own conscious, it’s a THRILL! See, I always think that the most exciting part in seeking prostitutes is when you are about to come face to face with the girl prostitute, i.e. the meeting up process. It is the when and how to meet. Who is the girl, how would she looks like, the body, the assets of the girl, where we would be doing it, what is her place like. It is the curiosity of the male seeker that got us men thrilled! Once these questions are answered after seeing the girl and place, it’s down to the banging job. And believe me, it’s just another banging job, per se. But the excitement of NOT knowing who we would be banging in the next 30 odd minutes is the THRILL of we men seek… I think. I reckon this CURIOSITY lust could the main reason men seek illicit affairs, and seek out uncharted territories, and in this case, the wonderlands of female bodies.

There are other reasons and factors for men to seek prostitution or illicit affairs, ranging from family issues to work issues and stress, you name it, but I do think men generally want to seek and exchange sexual relations with multiple partners to quench their lusts and with no strings attached. So, prostitution may just provide that answer to men. Can’t they just go jerk it off or go watch some porns? Well, we can, but the THRILL just isn’t there.

This blog entry is by no means purported to offend or discriminate anyone, particularly female readers/visitors or the oldest profession in the world, it is just my two cents thought after reading that post from the Girlfriend.

Erotica sequel "The Shaman's Daughter: The Coconut Crusade"

I am considering writing a sequel to The Shaman's Daughter: An Asian Erotica Short Story.  What say you?

After writing the first free erotica, I passed the manuscript to a few friends of mine.  They read and wanted to read more. And more surprisingly, it was my female friends who were more critical in coming forward to share their thoughts. One of them told me that the sex scene was a bit cut-short compared to other erotica shorts that she had read. OK, maybe I should improve on that. And with some words of encouragement, my sister told be that The Shaman's Daughter was a good attempt at blending an erotic plot with humour. She encouraged me to write another piece. Come to think of it, I did have some more dirty jokes at the back of my mind, hmm.. So be it, a sequel it is.

I have not started penning anything as yet, but I gave a thinker on the book title. And quite like The Coconut Crusade since this sequel kinda revolve around coconuts. Erotic story and coconuts, what a combination?! Anyway, will start writing soon, and Fatimah, my lead character in first book, will still be the main character in this sequel. So, stay tuned, peeps!

How to buy US Kindle Books from Malaysia & Singapore

Being an indie author in Malaysia does have its limitation. The biggest being the unavailability to buy Kindle books from Amazon from Malaysia. Whenever I visit a page of any Kindle e-book, the Amazon.com site would state that “This title is not available for customers from your location in: Asia & Pacific(change region).”

So how do peeps in Malaysia buy US Kindle books? Luckily there’s a way.

Step 1: Setup your Amazon.com account. I have a great site here to guide you how to set it up and even how to “Buy” the books from your new Amazon account. Kudos to the blogger over at singaboleh.com.

Step 2: Get the Kindle apps onto your device.

For Android based devices, just head over to AndroidDrawer to download the apk. I tried to find the Kindle App in Google Play but to no avail at this moment. So, decided to download the apk and I got it install and it’s working.

For iOS based devices, this could be a bit tricky. At this moment, there is no Kindle app for Malaysian registered iTunes account. So, you’ll need to setup another iTunes account and register it as US based account. And iPadMalaysiaLab.com has the pictorial step-by step guide to assist you.

I am not a techno expert, but I got my Kindle app installed on both my iOS and Android devices and is working fine. Just follow the steps above.

IMPORTANT NOTE:  According to singboleh.com, you shouldn’t buy or download the book using the Kindle app, but to use your computer to buy or download via a VPN.

Hope this helps.

“A Date with Flings: An Asian Husband’s Erotic Memoirs” out now in Amazon

This book was originally scheduled for pre-order and release in Smashwords, Apple’s iBooks and Barnes & Nobles on 28 April 2014. However, due to advice by a fellow author friend, I have decided to release it to Amazon exclusively for the next 90 days. Let’s see how it goes. Meanwhile, I could concentrate in writing my next book.

Another snippet of the book:-

“I thrust her on missionary position first. I flipped her vaginal lips couple of times using the head of my penis, tickling her before inserting my shaft slowly through the small opening of her vagina. While the lip of her cunt not was as wet, I could feel my cock slowly dipped into pool of love juice as I inserted my cock inch by inch into her body. When my cock was half in, I gave her a little thrust to go deeper. She moaned. I retracted my cock. And slowly thrust in one more time before quickening my thrusting pace. She moaned more heavily. I felt my cock being drenched in her juices, making my entries easier and sliding more slickly. As I buried myself deeper into her, I felt her body shivered even more. The agony of pleasured pain in her face made me even hornier. I continued to pump her in a longer deeper stroke and she took in all that I have given and seemed willing to take in more.”

A Date with Flings: An Asian Husband’s Erotic Memoirs is available now in Amazon.

Free Asian erotica book “The Shaman’s Daughter: An Asian Erotica Short Story”

After completed my first erotica, A Date with Flings: An Asian Husband’s Erotic Memoirs, I felt that I needed to test the water. Me, being a male erotica writer and an Asian, do I really have the niche? So, why don't I write another story for this purpose. Why not a short story, erotica genre too… and put in some humour into it? That’s when the idea of The Shaman’s Daughter conjured up.

Why The Shaman’s Daughter? Simply, it has the right location set (Asian backdrop), casts and a hilarious twist towards the end. No lies, the storyline of this book is actually an extended, refined and re-scripted version of a naughty joke my friend told me back in my o’schooling days. I actually added in more erotic elements and new characters’ developments to this refined version and penned it more towards the erotica genre. And voila.. a free erotic short story for all!

This fiction is about a sexual encounter set in an Asian tropical forest with a humorous twist where three campers got lost in the forest and wandered to the house of a salacious Shaman's daughter. What kind of sinister is bestowed upon them?

This FREE book is available for download here. Would appreciate your generous review thereafter. Enjoy!

My 1st Asian erotica book “A Date with Flings: An Asian husband erotic memoirs”

Kudos to myself (brag). I have completed and published my first erotica genre fiction book.

Writing this book was an arduous task as this is my first foray into fiction, and particularly erotic fiction. Like I’ve mentioned in my previous post, erotica genre is dominated by fellow female authors and I always think that female writers are more expressive in their work and they themselves know more about female sexual anatomy, hence easier to write in depth explicit scenes in erotica. I am trying my skills in delineating those feelings and expressions of female characters in my book, of course chipping in my own male sexual expressions.

This first erotica of mine is titled A Date with Flings: An Asian husband’s erotic memoirs. This fiction is about the steamy erotic memoirs of a loving Asian husband who shares his erotic sexcapades and misadventures, mostly in the city of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Chapters are broken into stories of erotic encounters from massage parlours and strip club visits to racy steamy hotel sex with MILF and FUBU.

An excerpt from the book:-
“…Hana pressed her body towards me with her eyes locked onto mine. I unhooked her strapless bra but it didn’t fall off. She then groped me from under, and stroked my cock, hardened by the intensity but still clothed inside my brief and pant. She peeked me on my cheek and proceeded to unbuckle my belt and pant. Cool breeze from the air-cond swept my thigh and crotch, sending chill to my body. Her strapless bra fell as soon as she bent down to peel down my brief. My cock sprung alive, closed to her face and mouth. How I wished she would suck it as blood filled the veins of my cock at quickening pace. She did not suck, but continued with the stroking. I felt her smooth flesh caressing the sensitive areas of my cock, particularly the tip of the head. Every time she glided through the tip, I moaned and shivers went from the tip of my cock down to my toes, shocking and paralyzing my legs for a millisecond. It felt so good…”

This book is scheduled for release on 28 April 2014. Pre-orders can now be made at:-
Smashwords
Apple’s iBooks
Barnes & Noble